A Grandfather's Words of Wisdom
May 23,2017Early 2015 I had found out that my father's dad was sick. Usually on my daily 30 mile ride home before gathering up my 2 loud and active children, I make any necessary phone calls to either family members, friends, or to my academic advisor for college. On this particular day after leaving work I had the urge to call my grandfather who I had not spoken to for over a year due to family issues my siblings and I had with our own father. I had to put my pride aside and contact my grandfather, he was sick and of course I missed his humorous conversation, his words of wisdom, and most of all his voice. My husband and I were also expecting our 3rd child and only son at the time. I was 8 months pregnant, I was tired and I was having a hard time carrying him in my last trimester. I made the call to him and the sound of his voice took me back to my childhood and the lazy days of summer I used to spend with our cousins at our grandparents home. He knew about our son and I wanted to cry, I felt like I kept this from him and I told him I was having a hard time. He told me the last few weeks are going to be the hardest for me but I will make it through them. We talked about a few other things, family in general and my husbands health since he suffered a major heart scare that nearly cost him his life. One of my grandfather's wishes were that I bring my children by, he wanted to see his great grand babies. I told him that I would and I loved him. Little did I know that would be the last time I talked to him. The next day my sister called to tell me he passed away. 3 weeks later our son was born. Every single word of our conversation has been etched in my memory forever. The words of wisdom and laughter from my grandfather.